I'm not giving up my damn bed. My brother and his sil are coming down for my dd's 5th birthday party. They were going to bring my parents. (Who are completely flat broke and not working or doing anything to better themselves.) My parents were going to stay with us, which I'm fine with. However, they have an air mattress at home and they refuse to bring it. They don't want to deflat it and reflate it. (lazy). My mom asked if they could sleep in our bed. Excuse me...what?? And where the hell would we sleep? Plus my dad is a smoker and I'll be damned if he stinks up my room and my bed where I sleep every night. I know for a fact if we asked to sleep in their bed if we went to visit them she'd tell us hell no. I can't stand having to cater to them. I'm just ranting so please leave your hatefulness out of the post. So if they want to miss out on seeing us this year...oh flipping well. They need to stop being so damn lazy. Gah!
Wife to Josh Mother to Saria Mother to Kairi
Well, like I said...I don't want my room stinking like nicotine. My allergies are bad enough as it is. And they wouldn't be on the floor. They have an air mattress they refuse to bring. She sleeps on it at her house.
Quoting LadyFreeRider:
We always give my MIL our bed when she comes down to visit. Its only for a few days and its kinda shitty to expect older people to sleep on the floor.
Wife to Josh Mother to Saria Mother to Kairi
Quoting LadyFreeRider:
We always give my MIL our bed when she comes down to visit. Its only for a few days and its kinda shitty to expect older people to sleep on the floor.
Not all air mattresses are on the floor anymore. Some are raised really high.
When my dad visit me, he sleeps on our queen futon. There are typically other options besides giving up your bed.
If they already sleep on a air mattress, why can't they bring the damn thing. I wouldn't give up my bed if I had parents like that.
ஐMainstream Momsஐ-Yes, it's a label. Come join the normal side of parenting. This is the gray area.
When I told my DH that he didn't even hesitate, the first words out of his mouth was "hell no". lol!
Quoting LyTe684:LOL. She has nerve asking you to give up your bed. lol
Wife to Josh Mother to Saria Mother to Kairi
Don't judge ADHD if you don't understand it!!!
- sweettigeress
on Jul. 11, 2012 at 11:47 AM