My 24 year old DD, who is getting married soon, told me about a week ago that she does not plan on ever having kids. I was looking forward to being a Grammy. I have even imagined what they would look like. Her Fiance has bright red hair, so I saw in my head these adorable red headed cuties. I was looking forward to helping her through the pregnancy and all that wonderful babysitting. Every time I see a friend with a baby I say how much I am looking forward to being a Grammy. Now I am so sad, I don't know what to do with these feelings. I am not going to try and talk her into having kids, that is her decision, not mine. But I can't help feeling like I have lost something precious.