Last time i saw him we were intimate.not just sex, but intimacy (sex and intimacy are not the same) which i know men with ptsd have issues with. Well i haven't heard a word from him in 3 weeks. I've tried contact about 4 or 5 times and nothing.
His birthday is this weekend. Should i tell him happy birthday. One friend said he played me, fuck him. The other blames the ptsd.
If it is ptsd, he needs space. Would that ruin it? Or does he need to know i still care. Would it make me look stupid if he did play me?
I really don't think he played me. It was too real, and men aren't that good at lying.