Things were going great until my SO was laid off and as soon as he finds work again and we start seeing the rainbow his ex throws him in jail for being 3 months behind on CS..I am so upset. I am left with 4 kids, no car and no income coming in. I am desperately trying to find a job but it slooks bleak since I am limited to how far I can travel. They impounded our vehicle since he was arrested on his employers parking lot. I dont have the money to get him out nor do I have the money to pay his CS down to where he can get out.
I know he should have paid his CS..I wont say he was in the right by any means, but we financially couldnt and we told her that he didnt have a job!!! He was layed off and the unemployment wasnt covering the bills. In January when we file taxes she was going to get every penny owed to her. I think she did it vindictively and in the process of hurting us she has now hurt 5 kids..The one they have together and our 4.
I am just so angry..Angry at her, him and myself. I am so hurt that this Christmas they wont have their father around nor will they get any gifts because if I dont find work soon I am going to have to sign up on welfare. I have never had to use PA and I have put it off all week to sign up but I have no choice. I also got an application for the Angel Tree for my kids to get something for Christmas.
IDK how I am going to pay for the bills. I have already called to have our internet and things shut off, cell phone coz its not a necessity. So Cafe Mommies I probably wont be on here for a while.
I am so overwhelmed. How am I going to make it? I have 2 in diapers, electric, rent, try to get may car out of impound, gas, laundry HOW AM I GOING TO DO THIS!!??
I have cried for 3 days/