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Is My Boyfriend Gay or Something?? ugh ....

Posted by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 11:36 AM
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He's always saying he's too tired for sex when I should be the one saying that.. 

He barely ever likes to do anything with me that i like to do..

He just plays his racing games all day like a little kid..

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atlmom2
by Susie on Nov. 12, 2012 at 11:39 AM
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Get rid of him.
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EbonyLove29
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 1:50 PM
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thats not enough to say he's gay! maybe he's just bored with you


SunnyJoJo
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 2:05 PM
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 lol
The point of dating is finding someone you're compatible with. Obviously ya'll are not. Leave now.  He wants to play video games all day, which doesn't nod towards any sexuality really, and you want him to get it on with you. Go find someone who wants what you want and be happy.

ms-superwoman
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 2:12 PM
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Probably not gay. Just bored with you and/or getting it from some where else.

twistandshout
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 2:26 PM

 Bored- Find some one new that is into you. Good Luck.

mna_823
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 2:45 PM
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 how long has it been going on?  I know that sex lives go through peaks and valleys.  Try spicing it up a little and see if that helps.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 12, 2012 at 2:47 PM

No, that doesn't sound like he is gay. It sounds like he is someone who just doesn't have as mutual of an interest in sex as you do.

Beeneez
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 2:52 PM
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It is common in relationships for either side to not feel sexually intimate with their partner. A lot of womyn are saying "well, maybe he is bored of you.". But have you ever taught maybe he doesn't feel close to you? As human beings we evolve all around as time goes on, and it is necessary for couples to always continue to get to know each other. So start slow, go on a date or have a date at home where you cook dinner watch a movie, and see how that feels. Or have dinner and talk. Talk about anything but make it a positive conversation. If in anyway he goes sour? That's when the concerns should come into play.
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MojaveGreen
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 3:06 PM
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Most of everyone in here is right, but you need to talk to him on how you feel and lesson to what is going on with him. In a relationship it is never 50/50. What is need is communication. So the both of you know where you stand. Before you just dump him.

Beeneez
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 3:11 PM
Thought*
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