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Is My Boyfriend Gay or Something?? ugh ....

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He's always saying he's too tired for sex when I should be the one saying that.. 

He barely ever likes to do anything with me that i like to do..

He just plays his racing games all day like a little kid..

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by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 11:36 AM
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Hottmomma607
by Trica on Nov. 12, 2012 at 11:42 PM
Seems like you don't have much in common. And if you have to question he's gay or not? Then it may be time to move on!
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zanderNerynMOM
by on Nov. 12, 2012 at 11:46 PM

talk to him. See what's up. give him a chance to explain and tell him how you feel. If it doesn't go well... consider leaving

connie45
by Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:01 AM
It's ok if you are not the one for him, because he is probably not the one for you.
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kaysha
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:24 AM
Find yourself someone you're compatible with.
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madmueller
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 9:13 AM
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This hurts to say because I was once in your shoes - But he's just NOT that in to you! If he was that boy would be doing everything to make you happy (they do this before you get married ha )! It's time to send him packing! You can do SO much better!  Good Luck

BL2010
by Silver Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 9:15 AM

Why in the world would you think that means he's gay? Sounds like you don't have much in common. Why are you staying with him?

smac28
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 9:18 AM

Doesn't sound gay, sounds like it's time to move on though!

jessi2girls
by Bronze Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 9:29 AM

He's probably waiting for something better to come around before he moves on.. sorry, but he's done with the relationship..too lazy to strike it out alone yet, and is just waiting for the moment to move on..

Rather than giving himthat chance, it's time for you to step up, respect yourself enough to realize this isn't the man for you, and give him the boot.

lga1965
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 9:33 AM
Maybe he feels too much pressure from you. That's not sexy.
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DutchBaby12
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 5:18 PM

could be, but i mean i never pressure him about it

Quoting lga1965:

Maybe he feels too much pressure from you. That's not sexy.


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