So I'll try to keep this simple, but there's sort of a lot to say. I'm pregnant and maybe hormonal... But my husband is just downright shady with his phone. He sleeps with it under his pillow most of the time, keeps it with him almost constantly (on rare and random occasion he might leave it in a room with me unsupervised, but it almost seems contrived when he does), and there are several instances that he avoids opening texts or checking alerts if I can see his screen. Like this morning when we woke up, he had a text and didn't open it but rather just put his phone down quickly and checked it later when he could do it without me seeing it. Things like that happen from time to time.
I've caught him in a lie concerning buying painkillers twice now. Not a huge deal, he doesn't "abuse" them and our family isn't suffering from it... It's the dishonesty that infuriates me. He knows the one thing I've ever asked of him was honesty. I don't care what choices he makes, and I trust him to make responsible ones for the most part. Just don't lie.
Now here's the catch... He doesn't have time to be having an affair or anything like that. We literally spend all of our time together, except maybe an hour or so here and there. Always randomly and usually we both have one of the kids. So I don't think he's screwing around.