I'm 27, no career just a job, no savings, no retirement, still renting, and I have nothing to my name. But I"m progressing, my job COULD turn into a career if I take it there. Dh has nothing! A job in a field he doesnt plan on progressing in. And I dont want to wind up being the one to resent him by staying and not truely love him, he's my safety net for our kids so that may be the reason im staying. But if im not sure of what I want to do in life, how can I judge him because he's not doing anything with his life? Im so confused im not sure what to do!