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Nipple simulation arouses me...but I want to breast feed

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Please, please don't be overly rude. I'm already upset that I'm even asking this....

Our first child is due any day now and I have wanted to EBF him since the get-go (i mean, that's what breast are for, right?)
But now I have this nagging thought: when DH simulates my boobs/nipples during foreplay and sex it does arouse me.

I have a feeling that it is mostly to do with what mind set one is in, ie: I'm feeding my child, this is not sexual at all therefore no arousal. But what if . . . . . .

I'm kinda worried. Any advice? Did anyone else at all every think about this??
As I said, this is the first baby and I have a lot of "stupid" questions.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 7, 2012 at 2:19 AM
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by Anonymous 9 on Dec. 12, 2012 at 1:59 AM
I was worried about this too. All that stress for no good reason though.. when it came time it was like a switch. My body just knew what was going on and reacted accordingly. I breastfed two babies each for over a year and never once did this issue arise. Good luck mama and don't stress this will not be an issue.
Christy1919
by Member on Dec. 12, 2012 at 10:33 AM

 have a kid on your boob trust me you won't be aroused at 3 am

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