Hi, I'm Stacie. I have two 9 year old twins. Problem, in addition to one night per week in work meetings, and about one night per week at boy scout meetings, he feels he needs to spend one night a week at his mom's cleaning out her hoarded mess. She's retired, lives like a slob and owns everything QVC ever offered for the past twenty years. He has a brother who lives in this house who does nothing, a sister who lives 30 minutes away who never helps, and another brother who lives 3 hours away who has come occassionally to help. Oh and his mom does nothing but argue about the stuff he's trying to get rid of (tag sales, ebay, trash). This has been going on for months and he expects not to be done till the spring? I hate it. I suggested that he, his sister, brother, and I put in one full weekend and finish the whole thing and he insists that he's picking through his mom's life and can't expedite the process, and that I'm being selfish and only care about myself. Maybe I am, but am I totally nuts about just getting this done and moving on with life?
Any and all opinions gladly accepted!