I was having lunch with some friends from college today. My best friend (since we were 6) called me a submissive wife. I was upset. I asked her why she would say that. She gave me reasons like : You make his coffee and breakfast every morning. I have dinner waiting on him when he gets home. I never make plans without consulting him first. And my favorite....... She said, " And I know that you do not believe in withholding sex. If he wants it, he gets it."
This makes no sense to me. I am not submissive or am I? I just do those things because I want to, not because DH makes me.
Do you think these things make you submissive?