So my hubby and I are sitting here watching tv im on my computer and bil who is 7 and lived her for almost 5 months is getting really loud with his legos i asked him to be quiet a little as it is settle down time. I then had to ask him again and then again for the third time. I said his name and said please be quiet this is my third time asking. I wasnt yelling or angry just said it normal he then looks at me and say YOU! Umm Excuse me?? PISSED ME OFF. Especially since we have just been sitting here. I said WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME? DID YOU JUST SAY YOU? he said yes so i put him on timeout and told him you do not talk to adult like that. I looked at my hubby and was like r u serious he never talks to me like that what the hell got into him my husband says IDK BUT AT LEAST HE DIDNT LIE ABOUT WHAT HE SAID..umm okay that still doesnt make it okay. I tell lil one that he need to take a 15 min bath and its back on time out til bed time 5-10 more minutes. He gets out of the bath and my husband asks if he drained that tub he says yea you can look. In a SNOTTY way. I didnt even hear him say yea all i head was you can look. even if he did say yes. doesnt matter still snotty still rude. He rarely talks to us this way. And I am stern on how you talk to adults parents or whoever. My husband then starts defending him AGAIN. Well he said yes then said go look. Im like are you kidding me? He is being a lil brat. Quit defending him. Now he keeps glaring at me. I dont know where he learned this crap but he better knock it off fast!