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Posted by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 1:32 PM
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Hi! I am a new member simply because I have a HUGE dilemma that will not leave me alone until I get another opinion. I am currently 33 weeks pregnant today, making my due date on March 7th. I wasn't sure when my LMP was because I am so irregular that I just never kept track of it (Stupid, I know). I went to the doctor after spotting after sex and found out I was 6 weeks, 6 days pregnant. Here's my dliemma: I KNOW that I had sex on or BEFORE May 14th with one partner and definitely in the beginning of June sometime with Guy #2, which makes sense that I'm pregnant and my conception date is June 14th. Therefore, it HAS to be with Guy #2, right?! There's no way that my conception date could be off THAT much from a sexual encounter on May 14th or before? I am almost positive it is Guy #2's and I've heard that early ultrasounds are pretty on point + or - 3 days or so ... please someone help ease my mind. I know this sounds awful, but it's stressing me out so much. I've had 7 or so ultrasounds since finding out I was pregnant and none of them have changed my due date. It's just the POSSIBILITY that it could be Guy #1's although in reality, it couldn't really be? Thank you for your response ...

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paknari
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 1:36 PM
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I'm sorry but how are you 33 weeks and due June 14th. Gestation is 40 weeks. I will be 33 weeks next Tuesday and I am due march 10th.
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scaredmom2be
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 1:41 PM

WOW. I'm sorry ... correction: I am 33 weeks today. CONCEPTION was dated on June 14th ... my DUE date is March 7th.

scaredmom2be
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 1:42 PM

:)

momamanda
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 1:43 PM

I think you might have some dates mixed up are you sure you're due in june?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 17, 2013 at 3:38 PM
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My ultrasound was dead on. My conception date was feb 14th and my due date was November 20th. Had mine on nov 21st. Sounds like it is guy #2.  A paternity test will confirm it. I think sperm dies within  like 7 days. if conception is june 14th then you would have been with guy #2 within 7 days prior. ...like the 7-14th of june.  Guy #1  and you would have conceived between may 14th-21st. So guy #2 should be the winner.  Hope it helps. Good luck!! 

paknari
by on Jan. 17, 2013 at 4:39 PM
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I'm due march 10th and I missed my period at the begining of July so Im estimating my conception date to be afte my last period which was June 7th. My conception date had to be anywhere after June 7th so I think it's guy 2.


Quoting scaredmom2be:

WOW. I'm sorry ... correction: I am 33 weeks today. CONCEPTION was dated on June 14th ... my DUE date is March 7th.


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mamamiajk
by Platinum Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 10:33 AM

Do the guys know about each other? The only way you'll know for sure is to have a DNA test done. Good luck!

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