Even through most of my pregnancy I put a lot of effort into my appearance. I didn't have trouble losing my baby weight (dd is 2months, don't bash me) but I don't feel pretty at all. My hair jst hangs, I need to get a cut but I can never find time.I'm so depserate I've considered getting my hair cut at walmart. I hardly have time to put makep on or dress up the way I used to.
It makes me really depressed, not because I feel looks are the only thing that matters but because dressing up used to be my way of relaxing. I feel like I never get a moment of peace. I'm constantly doing something for dd or dh, I honestly wonder what will happen when i go back to work. DH is a good gy and he tries but dd gets frustrated spending more than 20-30mins with him at a time.
Not working and not looking good my self-esteem is at 0. Also the cheating posts on cm don't help, they bring up a lot of my insecurities even though dh isn't a cheater.