Question: Is it fair?
Total Votes: 9
My boyfriend gets so upset if I ask a friend to hang out when he's at work. I know he's asked me to ask or tell him before he leaves but I don't always think about it before he goes to work. Most of the time when I ask my friends to hang out I don't go hang out with them. For example: two nights ago I asked two friends to hang out. One was busy with family and the other one had plans later on in the day. I told the one that had plans later in the day that I would go over there after I went down to my old school and showed off my son. I ended up just coming home after going down to the school and didn't tell my friend that I had decided to go home and he didn't ask where I was. Well when my boyfriend got home and asked me what I did I told him that I went to the school and then came home. I didn't feel the need to tell him I asked a couple friends to hang out if I didn't actually go over there. My boyfriend has his best friend come over... yeah he asks me if it's okay but htere are those times that he says I'm gonna get ____ over here to help me with my car or whatever. I'm okay with it most of the time but I ask him if his friend can not be here very late. He agrees but his friend doesn't leave until 8 or 9 at night. I just feel like all the interaction I get is with my son, my boyfriend, and his best friend.