There is this girl who works for me, she is 25. she has been living with her BF for 2 years, he was separated when they met and he has an almost 4 yo daughter who spends the weekends with them.
This girl quit her job around March last year and began working with me on August, the day I hired her, her BF kicked her out because he was going back with his ex; she moved back in with her parents.
Things between his ex and his ex did not work out and they ended up getting divorced; he started calling and asking her out again.
She was asking me for advice, I kept telling her not to go back with him because he had already cheated on her, kicked her out and for what she had told me about their relationship, he is controling, jealous and mean to her sometimes.
She began dating him again and spending nights with him then her parents told her to move out.
For now, she only works part time since I cannot afford more hours right now.
Last week she comes to me and told me she was pregnant!!!
She decided to have the baby and keep him/her. according to her, her BF is very happy with the news but also told her he hopes is a boy otherwise is going to be very hard for the baby to understand that his first child is daddy's little girl and he will love the new baby (if a girl) but never as much as his first born.
I wish she had listened to me; she has no college education she has a part time job and an A#$ BF.
The only thing I can do right now is support her and help her, but I feel really bad for her. and feel things are not going to end well.