Like my other post where my bf said he wasn't sure if he was ready for marriage. He said those exact words. "I wonder of I'm ready for this" (but has seemed to return to normal since)
Now when she brings it up its "he said he can't deal with your child" bc she's in her terrible 2s and her tantrums aren't helping this. He has expressed frustration with it but never said he couldn't deal with her. He wants to adopt her.
But a screaming child IS frustrating. Even to me and I'm her mom.
So she has been talking shit on him,saying she doesn't like him anymore. He's too wishy woshy. (Like it isn't normal to get nervous about marriage)
She likes to post things on fb directed to people. Today she posted a meme saying "stop making excuses for him, you can't put flowers in an asshole and call it a vase" with the caption haha
She said I'm just making excuses for his nervousness bc he's young, two deployments, divorced, and had lost a child all in the past 2 years so I understand he's nervous.
He said he didn't want out, so I'm taking his word on that. He stopped being distant and us back to his old self.
She said he's gonna break it off, but just doesn't wasn't to hurt me but he's on his way out the door. She's never even spoken to him.
I'm stating to not want to discuss things with her. She twists everything. Then goes and tells my business to her friend and they've 3 way called me to tell me how I'm wrong, they're right before (were in our 30s her friend is almost 50).