I was very close to marrying a guy I didn't find attractive, I had tons of love for him. He was nice, he treated me like a princess, he spoiled me, and I felt loved by him. I didn't find him the least bit attracted to him but I didn't care. I just knew I wanted to be with him... til the abuse started and everything went downhill from there. Anyway, now I'm with a guy who I think is freaking gorgeous and mmmmm. He was poor as shit when I met him but he just made me so happy, still does too, and I didn't care about the money. I can't imagine my life without him and even if he got in some type of freak accident that made him dsfigured I feel like I wouldn't give a crap, I want to grow old with him and take care of him like he's took care of me and the kids.
So I was wondering if anyone has been in a long relationship with someone they aren't attracted to or do looks really matter at the end of the day...?