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Is it true that once a cheater, always a cheater?

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by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 6:53 PM
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KymberleeAnn
by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:29 PM

True and those who knowingly allow a cheater whom they are aware is involved with someone is an accessory to the crime.

Quoting Tatiana7:

 I've encountered both sides of this.  It's as subjective as opinions.  I do believe it's a personality flaw for those who cannot commit.  I also feel cheating is a crime of opportunity. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:29 PM
Sad to say I have cheated a bit...its not that I enjoy hurting anyone..its on the other half and the reason of being with him..i love him because he is the father of my son, BUT he is very controlling and I dont feel like he treats me like a woman, or even a person. I have to be in at a certain time ..i cant go grocery shopping because I spend too much..i cant have more than $5.00 in my pocket . I fell in love..lust..with someone who lets me speak and have thoughts and that treats me like a woman..cheating I know isnt right but it can be very difficult on all that is involved


Quoting KymberleeAnn:



Bellmont
by on Mar. 18, 2013 at 9:51 AM
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She was also a friend of mine. Friends don't do that to friends.
KymberleeAnn
by on Mar. 18, 2013 at 2:37 PM

I agree yes a true friend would never do something like this to another friend.

I'm sorry that happened to you.

Quoting Bellmont:

She was also a friend of mine. Friends don't do that to friends.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 18, 2013 at 6:41 PM

I would have a very hard time with trust again. 

I would not be able to trust the guy. From my experience with my friends husbands and some family members whom married cheaters, they cheated more than once. A few tolerate it cause of the kids which is ridiculous and some divorced.


Hottmomma607
by Trica on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:54 AM

I don't know? I don't have experience? I think anyone can change.

Caitlin10081989
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 12:54 PM

No, it is not true once a cheater always a cheater. 

KymberleeAnn
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:21 PM

True.

Quoting Anonymous:

I would have a very hard time with trust again. 

I would not be able to trust the guy. From my experience with my friends husbands and some family members whom married cheaters, they cheated more than once. A few tolerate it cause of the kids which is ridiculous and some divorced.



KymberleeAnn
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 1:22 PM

I agree that people can change if they really want to.

Quoting Hottmomma607:

I don't know? I don't have experience? I think anyone can change.


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