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Anonymous
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Question: Your opinion?

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I feel the same as you do!

She did nothing wrong!

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Lets say youre in your son's Kindergarten class for a program and a lady pops her boob out ( fully exposed) around about 20 families, would you be okay with it? Im not talking about not covering or BF in the other room or bathroom. I mean the lady was standing there basically topless!!!

Thankfully my kids didnt see anything. They happened to be facing the other way but there were plenty who did see.. I found it disturbing and completely disrespectful that she did it.

Your thoughts??

Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 23, 2013 at 11:51 AM
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Texascandee
by Bronze Member on Apr. 23, 2013 at 11:56 AM
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I think she should have covered with a light blanket.  I don't think a woman should be told to bf her baby in a restroom.  I wouldn't say disturbing or disrespectful but a blanket should definately be used in public

honeydewmommy
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 11:56 AM

On purpose???? Or accident, if accident, it happens. Either way I would have walked up to her and been like and whispered that she popped out of her shirt. 

sweetr0se
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:11 PM

They have indecient exposure laws for a reason!

TimetoMomUp
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:13 PM

I struggle on this one.  I don't think a woman should have to breastfeed in a bathroom, that is gross.   I don't feed my five year old in the bathroom.  I don't think there is anything wrong with publicly feeding your child.  I am not sure about the fully exposed breast but on the other hand, it is the natural way to feed a baby so how is it wrong?  I guess I lean most toward "she did nothing wrong."

unspecified42
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:14 PM
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Was she breast feeding but not to your liking or just letting her boob hang out for fun? I'm confused.
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Snowpuma
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:16 PM
Yeah.....


Quoting unspecified42:

Was she breast feeding but not to your liking or just letting her boob hang out for fun? I'm confused.

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EyEmTuRtLe
by Bronze Member on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:19 PM

I don't mind others that BF regardless of where they are but at least cover up a little. 

Cindy18
by Bronze Member on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:20 PM
The way just understood you was: she was not breast feeding, just standing there topless?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:28 PM

What? Why did she pop her boob out? Was she breastfeeding or what?

Marimaru
by on Apr. 23, 2013 at 12:46 PM

I think she could have been more discreet about it.  I won't cover my baby's head, but I'll put a blanket or a sweater over my chest so that I can be sure nothing is exposed except the place where my baby is latched, which of course is covered by my baby.  I also try to find a quiet corner.

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