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Does sex in the 1st 30 days kill a relationship?

Posted by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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Question: If you have sex within 30 days of meeting somebody, you’ve got a 90 percent chance of being broken up within one year.

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“If you have sex within 30 days of meeting somebody, you’ve got a 90 percent chance of being broken up within one year,” says Dr. Wendy Walsh, author of The 30-Day Love Detox.
by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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Aprilaaw85
by Member on May. 23, 2013 at 10:21 AM
12 moms liked this

 LOL! I had sex with my dh after 5 days. Today, we have been together 8 years.

Perfect.Pixie
by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:22 AM
2 moms liked this
I had sex on the first day 15+ years ago. Still together (;
WandaSue
by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:23 AM
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 nope 4 kids and 15 years later

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 23, 2013 at 10:23 AM
9 moms liked this
I dated longer than that. Married 28 years. Would never think of having sex fast. If they want me, they will wait.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 23, 2013 at 10:25 AM
1 mom liked this

I don't think that her quote is true in every situation. I feel that it clouds judgement but I don't think that it makes you break up any faster than if you waited five years.

othermom
by Silver Member on May. 23, 2013 at 10:53 AM
2 moms liked this

I am not sure, maybe in some relationships

Anonymous
by Anonymous on May. 23, 2013 at 10:54 AM

Well, that would be true for all of my relationships with the exception of my husband. 

ChloeDolce1
by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:54 AM
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I had sex with my husband on our 3rd date.  that was well under 30 days and that was almost  9 years ago, 7 years of marriage and 3 (ages 5 and under) children later.  Guess we prove that theory wrong

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Alta2008
by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:57 AM
7 moms liked this

I think its true, but maybe a little lower than 90% tho.... Congrats to all the ladies that are still happily married, it takes a lot of hard work on both sides to survive.... :)

kansasmom1978
by on May. 23, 2013 at 10:58 AM

Had sex 2 or 3 weeks in and been together nearly 13 years and married almost 12.

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