I wouldnt be bothered by it. wouldnt be a loss, there are plenty of other people out in this world.
If the shoe fits, wear it. And find someone else. A real friend is there through thick and thin.
Sounds like this person has some very valid reasons to want to end the relationship.
Quoting Momofmenagerie:I would feel that I needed to take a hard look at myself and if I was holding up my side of the friendship. If I realized I wasn't , I'd apologize and try to harder to do " my part"
If you are SAYING this to someone.... Do not expect that response, expect " FINE, you major B! You needs you!"
Maybe you do have issues and you are not worth being a friend to I agree I wouldnt want to be friends with you either !
I would question how much of my baggage I had exposed them to.
It would bug me, but I would get on with my life. I can sometimes over-exagerate small problems because of my anxiety. In the moment it seems like a huge deal to me, then when it passes I realize just how small of an issue it is. Usually it is only when one of my children get hurt. I have major anxiety over ever losing them.
Ex. I accidently clipped my babies nail too far back, and he bled, I freaked and called 911 and I was bawling because I though I had seriously injured him. It took 20 minutes for the bleeding to stop. It healed in less then a week but I still feel guilty for it. I have never hurt any of my children before intentionally or unintentionally. I try to be so careful and he was my 4th lol
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