So I put myself out there and said we are just going together to the theme park as friends right? He said uh yeah I said okay just checking. I said are you wanting to stay the night up there with me or? (Bc why would you want to randomly stay the night up there... I'm not giving out mixed signals he's not getting any from me) and I can't remember his exact words but it was something like well I mean I just thought it would be fun to stay somewhere with a pool and I had planned on doing it sometime this summer and since i will be up there already. I just felt like an idiot. He doesn't want to spend time with me he just wants to go up there. Why bother calling/texting me the last few days.
If he wants to stay I'm gonna tell him he can pay for it bc I don't have extra money I want to spend on that and I'm fine with going home.
This might be confusing I'm rambling but would this be mixed signals to you? I mean do you like me and want to spend time together or are you just bored and want to get away for a weekend. He knows I like him also its not a surprise.
We are both 27 and this is a kid free weekend if that matters.