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He's fat and she's thin, he's gorgeous and she's ugly... do you judge?

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Do you judge couples where one is pretty and the other isn't, or where one is very heavy and the other thin?

Posted by Anonymous on Jun. 17, 2013 at 3:18 PM
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by Anonymous 10 on Jun. 20, 2013 at 1:10 PM
Nope. But I know my husband and I get judged because of our age difference.
by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 1:35 PM
Nope. I'm not going to judge. My husband is much bigger than me and taller.
by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 2:15 PM

I do look and wonder and say if it works for them thats great, who am i to say.

by Anonymous 11 on Jun. 20, 2013 at 2:20 PM

me and hubby gets looks cause hes in shape and im short and fat but o well he likes it or he wouldnt be with me so i just let them look who cares its our life not theirs 

by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 3:21 PM

I don't really notice.  I think I noticed more when I was single because I was more likely to observe.  

by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 3:50 PM
My fiancé is a little Irish bald guy who is 18 years older ,
I know without his shirt on he is ripped, at 43 and does nothing to look that way lol

I am young and considered attractive and thicker gal ,

We get looks , particularly from guys my age, especially if they were looking at me when so walks up to me...

It is obvious after only a couple minutes why we are together though ...

As for me doing it, I don't notice the differences, I notice the body language and interaction between couple, and occasionally it is an odd couple that draws my attention, I don't feel I judge, but I do observe
by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 4:23 PM
No, why? Is personality, character, respect, Romantism, and just plain love not count anymore?

Wrapping paper get ripped pretty quickly, the gift is inside.
by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 5:53 PM
Do I notice? Of course. Beyond that? I don't really care.
by on Jun. 20, 2013 at 6:00 PM

The only time I even question it, is when she is21 and is 75! Then I go hmmm, yeah!

by Anonymous 12 on Jun. 20, 2013 at 6:13 PM

I never used to judge, and honestly still don't, however there is one instance where I do. It's out of jealousy, though, and I know that, but that doesn't make it any less wrong I suppose.

There is this guy that I like VERY much and we were starting to get close, then he ran into a girl he went to college with. They hooked up and now I am back to just "some girl he knows", kwim? Now to why I judge....she is almost 4 inches taller than him & I think they look silly together. He's already pretty short for a guy, then to have his girlfriend tower over him, well, it just makes him look shorter. I am almost the same height as him and we look good together ;D

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