If you and your DH died, who would take care of your kids?
After talking to my sister tonight, her friend had passed, and there was a lot of family drama surrounding who would take the kids. It got me thinking who would take care of my 3 sons if something happened to me or my DH? I think both of our parents are out, his are mid-60s and mine early 60s, I wouldn't want the burden of 3 young boys 7, 4, and 9 months. Possibly DH sister, my siblings are out (not that close to 2 of them and the other...well...we are polar opposites when it comes to parenting). Geez....doesn't leave me w/ much options....or a very close friend of DH and his wife, don't have children of their own (had chemo as a child) and they could financially support all 3.
Who would you leave to take care of your kids and do you have legal documents...I.e. will to support that?