My dh will be working midnights when lo is due. We have no family out here and the few friends I have have normal jobs and families of their own. I really don't want to be taking care of a newborn alone for 2/3s of the day, all alone all night and then all alone during the day while dh sleeps. He says he'd help while he's sleeping but to be honest I don't see myself making the extra effor of spending 5-10 minutes trying to get him to wake up just to change a diaper when I'm already up and could do it myself. I was thinking maybe I could just get on dh's schedule too. Like stay up with lo all night and sleep during the day with dh for about 3-4weeks and then go back to a normal schedule 2-3weeks before going back to work. Would that screw up lo's schedule too much?