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is this cheating and what would you do?

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I am seeing this guy that i really like and care about. A few days ago I saw some texts from this girl he was flirting with and telling her he loves her and how they want to be together forever. He said I shouldn't have looked. We decided to stay together and make it work. Should I give up...or in some cases should you try to make it work?

by on Aug. 15, 2013 at 3:45 PM
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Deannastar
by on Aug. 16, 2013 at 7:46 PM

Sweetheart, give it up. Sorry.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 16, 2013 at 7:54 PM
Has he told u he loves u 2? The man is a player. Move on. Before u get ur feelings hurt.
SAMI_JO
by on Aug. 16, 2013 at 8:35 PM

 I would kick him to the curb. Once a cheat always a cheat! I know I have been on both ends.

sunflower37
by Member on Aug. 16, 2013 at 9:49 PM

If he's telling her he loves her there's definitely something going on between them. I would just leave him alone if I were you.

MommyBoha
by Member on Aug. 16, 2013 at 10:56 PM
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How is this even a question? Dump his sorry ass
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 16, 2013 at 11:02 PM
Lol. That what i want to know.


Quoting MommyBoha:

How is this even a question? Dump his sorry ass

ChicatSixty
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 12:12 AM
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Leave now. This ealry on in a relationship, he should be treating you like a princess. If he is doing this stuff NOW, what he is going to do when you are 9 months pregnant or when  you have three kids and no job?

Love isn;t SUPPOSED to be work. It is supposed to be great and fun and nice and make you feel wonderful. And baloney to "well, you shouldn;t have looked". How about he shouldn;t have bee screwing around on his cell?

Leave now. You were looking for a great boyfriend when you bumped into him.

Cherish77
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 12:14 AM
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I wouldn't, I would find someone who was in it for me, not flirting on the side.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 17, 2013 at 1:15 AM

ummmmm I'd move on.

casseopeia
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 1:21 AM

He is not emotionally available.  Time to move on.

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