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is this cheating and what would you do?

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I am seeing this guy that i really like and care about. A few days ago I saw some texts from this girl he was flirting with and telling her he loves her and how they want to be together forever. He said I shouldn't have looked. We decided to stay together and make it work. Should I give up...or in some cases should you try to make it work?

by on Aug. 15, 2013 at 3:45 PM
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petitekatie
by Member on Aug. 17, 2013 at 2:07 AM

psh. I'd be gone.

Francess33
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 9:55 AM

Pardon my french but ~ fuck that shit~!! Even if he isn't cheating, what he is doing is still wrong and his behavior will continue if your relationship continues. Remember, when a person shows you who they are, believe them. 

MommaTasha1003
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 10:07 AM

If your just seeing each other & havent been together more than a few years & issues are comming up, like cheating & trust... I'd advise you to walk away... But I really dont know you or him, so thats easy to say.


jakiera24
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 2:40 PM

oh hell no....LEAVE HIS ASS...I'd rather be cheated on physically than emotionally....either way im walkin away from the relationship as should u

motherslove82
by Member on Aug. 17, 2013 at 5:25 PM
No. Why would you want to keep wasting time with man who is in love with someone else. Maybe he'll go back to her, maybe he won't. But he doesn't love you.
mstef99
by on Aug. 17, 2013 at 5:54 PM

 I'd give up... if he's using the "L" word with her than he's not worth your time!

nurse1997
by Silver Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:04 PM

RUN RUN AWAY AND FAST !

elkmomma
by Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:47 PM

From what you statetd, I doubt he thinks he's anything but single. 

Miss_Mandy80
by on Aug. 18, 2013 at 12:49 PM
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Well if they are going to be together forever, where do you fit into that? 

Diane1223
by Member on Aug. 18, 2013 at 7:19 PM
Even through text, it is still cheating. I probably wouldn't deal with it...
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