I dunno why it's my fault. My DH used to bed very thin. Not unhealthy just thin. He started gaining weight right before he met me. Like a month before. But his mother says it was me. I say I didn't shove food down his throat. We weren't around each other our first 4 months because he was in the army. A couple of the guys from the army said I made him depressed that I couldn't be there and he put on weight from stress.