What have or do you guys do for a 2 year (going to be 3 this winter) throws a tantrum and does a hy pitched screeching? We have tried time outs. SHe jsut screams crys and bangs on things. I'm thinking that her having 2 sets of parents (her birth father and his wife and me and my new hunny) dont help. But please help. I have tried talking to her birth father about it and he states shes a prefect little angel. Please any advice would help.