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What would you do if you found out your sitter was abusing your baby?

Posted by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:20 AM
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Family Dog Helps Parents Expose Their Child's Abusive Babysitter

by Lisa Fogarty

Shortly after relocating to Charleston last year, Benjamin and Hope Jordan searched high and low for a reliable babysitter for their then 7-month-old son Finn. Like many parents, they were probably filled with an anxiety that ceased slightly when the background check for their potential sitter, 22-year-old Alexis Khan, came out clean as a whistle. 

But Khan wasn't fooling their family dog.

"About five months into her being our babysitter, we started to notice that our dog was very defensive of our son when she would come in the door," said Benjamin Jordan. "He was very aggressive towards her and a few times we actually had to physically restrain our dog from going towards her." 

Suspicious, the Jordan's placed an iPhone under their couch to record the sitter with Finn while they were at work. What they heard later that day devastated them. 

Khan was caught on tape cussing at the baby. The curses soon turned to slapping noises and Finn's cries could be heard changing from distress to pain. 

Is your blood boiling yet? Can you even imagine how you would feel? 

"I just wanted to reach through the audio tape, go back in time, and just grab him up," Jordan said. "To know that five months I had handed my child to a monster, not knowing what was going on in my house for that day."

The good news -- the only good news to come from this sad story, other than the fact that the Jordans can take solace in the fact that they have one amazing pooch -- is that Khan was arrested, confessed to the abuse, and was sentenced this week to serve one to three years in prison. 

As part of her plea, Khan will be placed on a child abuse registry, which is the least that the courts could do after what this child and these poor parents went through. She actually qualifies for parole in one year -- which seems ludicrous to me.

I understand a punishment has to fit a crime and that I am especially sensitive to and passionate about this issue because I have a toddler, but is one year really enough time for this crazy woman to learn the lesson that she has no right to put her hands on someone else's child? She could have chosen any other part-time job -- why choose one that required her to be a loving caretaker? 

Do you think Khan's sentence is fair?

by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:20 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:48 AM
Id fire her and make a police report
acrogodess
by Bronze Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:50 AM
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She would have no hands left with which to hit anyone else's baby ever again. I would gladly go to jail. My mom would raise them right.
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Apgsteenmommy
by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:52 AM

omg makes me mad!  no she needs to be in jail longer................ i would have lost my mind if i found out anyone was treating my son with disrespect

acrogodess
by Bronze Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 8:54 AM
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Oh and the dog would be getting treats for life!
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Miss_Mandy80
by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 9:35 AM

She would wish she had never been born!

xixCandyxix
by Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 9:59 AM
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I think her one year of punishment & the registry is enough. All she did is slap the baby & swear at him. Which is terrible, but it could've been SO much worse. She didn't break any bones, leave bruises; she didn't kill him. And lots of kids go through MUCH worse at the hands of their own parents and nothing ever comes of it.

zraunt
by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 10:42 AM
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Let the dog at her.
lilbit53009
by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 10:45 AM

i agree with this...she probably needs anger management also 

Quoting xixCandyxix:

I think her one year of punishment & the registry is enough. All she did is slap the baby & swear at him. Which is terrible, but it could've been SO much worse. She didn't break any bones, leave bruises; she didn't kill him. And lots of kids go through MUCH worse at the hands of their own parents and nothing ever comes of it.


polkaspots
by Bronze Member on Sep. 12, 2013 at 10:47 AM
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Absolutely.


Quoting acrogodess:

Oh and the dog would be getting treats for life!

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zraunt
by on Sep. 12, 2013 at 10:52 AM
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So easy to be forgiving when it's not your child.

Quoting xixCandyxix:

I think her one year of punishment & the registry is enough. All she did is slap the baby & swear at him. Which is terrible, but it could've been SO much worse. She didn't break any bones, leave bruises; she didn't kill him. And lots of kids go through MUCH worse at the hands of their own parents and nothing ever comes of it.


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