Okay, So here's the scoop.
My husband works friday-monday for 7 hours at a time milking cows on a dairy farm.
I myself am a stay at home mom.
On my husbands days on Tue-thurs he sleeps in until 11:30 sometimes 1.
EVERY morning I wake up depending on my LO anywhere from 6-8, 8 if I am lucky. I take care of him all day every day and most of the time all night.
When LO fusses it is my job because hubby cant handle it. So basically he changes a diaper once in a blue moon or makes a few bottles but everything else is on me.
He says it is my job to do the dishes, clean, cook, and take care of the baby, yet sits there and tells me I dont have a job.
His excuse for not ever letting me sleep in is that he works.. I tell him I have a full time job and I would like to sleep in every once in awhile too. Maybe he could do dishes at least once, or cook for me just ONCE which he hasnt done since my birthday last year.
Anyhow, I just feel like he is acting like a sexist selfish pig by putting everything on me because he works 4 days a week. I feel like he doesnt take my feelings in consideration, and I feel like I deserve a little more fucking sleep.
Anyhow, I could use some advice on this dilema, maybe some good ideas on how to make things more fair for the both of us?
Especially since I just found out I am pregnant.