We have an almost 2 year old. Even before he was born we were pretty sure we'd only have one but were open to the idea of two. However, I had a terribly painful and sick pregnancy, post Partum anxiety after our son was born, and have a work injury that couldn't be fixed through surgery and causes me a lot of pain. And my husband is on specialized units which take him away from home often.
Everyone seems to ask this, even people we don't know well - lots through work. When I say we're not most people that don't know us (which are the people who ask really) often respond with "oh you'll change your minds" or "you never know.."
Does this stop as your kid ages? What can be said politely to stop the "no you're wrong" responses? Even out situation aside, I only really wanted 1 child.