After a 28yo veteran was found dead in a hotel in CO her family laid her to rest and had this headstone made to mark her grave because she really liked Spongebob and even had a Spongebob-themed bedroom. The cemetary approved the stone but now has removed it and the one they made like it for her twin sister who's still alive. They say the stone should never have been approved and that the family should choose something more appropriate. They are offering to cover the cost of the two markers for the family, citing their error, but the family feels hurt that they're dismissing the deceased's wishes.
Do you think this is inappropriate for a gravestone, or is it fitting?