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Sex? What's that?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I'm not joking, this is real.  I have been married for more than 20 years and for most of that time I"m lucky if we make love two times a year.  No one in my life knows this and it's driving me insane.  The past couple of years it's been even worse (didn't think it was possible).  My husband is a little older and he has trouble with erections now, won't see a doctor, won't talk about it.  Anyone else living like this?  Any ideas on how to add a little spice to our lives?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 9, 2013 at 9:24 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 9, 2013 at 9:27 PM
Married 2 years and right now its only once a month if I'm lucky. Usually every two. He doesn't even try. It sucks and I know how you feel. Its only a matter of time before we end up going longer in between. I used to try a lot but he turned me down every time so I stopped trying. He's also been checked out by a doctor and so far they can't find anything wrong.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 10, 2013 at 4:08 PM

Married 3 years and same problem. My husband says it is because he is too tired or doesnt want me to get pregnant and condoms deflate him. (birth control causes issues with weight). I feel unattractive and misrable. My husband is in his 20s and before or DD we had sex regularly and now I am lucky if we have sex every couple of months. I am so frustrated and am now at the point we constanly fight and I am thinking about a divorce. I love my husband but I need sex. It is an important part of any relationship. I don't belive in cheating so am really thinking about leaving him because this isn't working out.

AllThatBabyJazz
by Member on Nov. 10, 2013 at 5:02 PM
No help. I have the opposite problem
Brenna
by Bronze Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 12:17 PM

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.

2Sparrows4ever
by on Nov. 11, 2013 at 2:28 PM

No, don't do this, think of how him slipping something your drink would make you feel, because I know I would be pissed the eff off!!


Have you told him, I want sex? I NEED sex, have you suggested enhancement meds? 
 

Quoting Brenna:

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.


Brenna
by Bronze Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 2:28 PM


I was joking, FYI

Quoting 2Sparrows4ever:

No, don't do this, think of how him slipping something your drink would make you feel, because I know I would be pissed the eff off!!


Have you told him, I want sex? I NEED sex, have you suggested enhancement meds? 
 

Quoting Brenna:

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.




2Sparrows4ever
by on Nov. 11, 2013 at 2:30 PM

Your I'm joking font is broken ;)

Quoting Brenna:


I was joking, FYI

Quoting 2Sparrows4ever:

No, don't do this, think of how him slipping something your drink would make you feel, because I know I would be pissed the eff off!!


Have you told him, I want sex? I NEED sex, have you suggested enhancement meds? 
 

Quoting Brenna:

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.





Brenna
by Bronze Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 2:32 PM


I forgot that on Cafemom, you have to write "SARCASM" or people take you seriously.

Oh well.

Quoting 2Sparrows4ever:

Your I'm joking font is broken ;)

Quoting Brenna:


I was joking, FYI

Quoting 2Sparrows4ever:

No, don't do this, think of how him slipping something your drink would make you feel, because I know I would be pissed the eff off!!


Have you told him, I want sex? I NEED sex, have you suggested enhancement meds? 
 

Quoting Brenna:

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.







2Sparrows4ever
by on Nov. 11, 2013 at 2:34 PM

drinking

Quoting Brenna:


I forgot that on Cafemom, you have to write "SARCASM" or people take you seriously.

Oh well.

Quoting 2Sparrows4ever:

Your I'm joking font is broken ;)

Quoting Brenna:


I was joking, FYI

Quoting 2Sparrows4ever:

No, don't do this, think of how him slipping something your drink would make you feel, because I know I would be pissed the eff off!!


Have you told him, I want sex? I NEED sex, have you suggested enhancement meds? 
 

Quoting Brenna:

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.








areid1023
by Bronze Member on Nov. 11, 2013 at 2:36 PM
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lol this is a hilariously terrible idea. whatever you do OP do not slip your husband something. 

Quoting Brenna:

Cialis online from Canada.  Slip it in his drink.



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