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Is 12 too young for dyed hair?

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My daughter has been begging to dye hair, something like this:

Anyway, I've seen other kids at the school with this ombre style, but the colored portion may be purple, blue, green, or other colors besides the pink shown here, and I think it looks cute. It's not against the school's dress code or anything, either, so I'm willing to let her but my husband says she's too young. Do you think 12 is too young? She'll be 13 next month.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 14, 2013 at 2:52 PM
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by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 14, 2013 at 2:54 PM
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One of my daughter's friends regularly dyes her hair and she's 10. I, personally, have asked my daughter to wait until she is 16 to use any kind of permanent dye. I just don't want her to start down that road of damage at such a young age.

by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 2:55 PM

I have sons, but my policy is that they can do whatever they want with their hair as long  as it's not insane for school pictures.  Hair grows out, goes back to it's "natural" color.  No big deal.  It's ok for their self-expression.  Much rather them do that than get something piereced or tattoed.  :)

by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 2:59 PM

I would not want them to damage their hair at that age

by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 14, 2013 at 3:04 PM

Most hair dyes contain dangerous chemicals. That would be my concern.

If it were henna or soemthing organic, then no problem.

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by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 3:13 PM
I think id allow it. Hair grows out so it doesn't have to be forever. I only have boys though.
by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 3:28 PM

Not too young my mom started dying my hair at about nine or ten, I looked way better blonde lol.

by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 3:30 PM
I started dying my hair when I was 12, I don't think it's too young
by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 3:42 PM

No way!!  Let them get it out of their systems before they enter the working and professional world!!!  I was never allowed to dye my hair until I moved out.

by Member on Nov. 14, 2013 at 5:25 PM
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 I don't think she's too young to dye her hair as long as she doesn't use a permanent dye.  But as she's going to officially be a teenager next month, maybe you could use the hair color to make a big deal of the occasion.  Have a mother/daughter thing to celebrate her being a teenager and dye it then.  It will be a "rite of passage of sorts.

by on Nov. 14, 2013 at 5:45 PM
I dyed my hair at 15
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