My DH will always say how he cares or loves me, but when it comes to action - it tells me the oppoisite.
To me, he is disrespectful to me, ignores me, won't listen (Iliterally get the back of his head and he won't look at me while I am talking)
His fall back is he works to provide for us and that is how he showing it. I need emotional/mental/physical help at home (like handyman things that need o be done "man's work")
I am on the vrge of leaving because I feel like a total piece of crap, but I really need it towork because I can't leave for multiple reasons - no where to go, and if I did no way to get there. I have no bank account, car, assets of any kind. I refuse to leave without 100% custody, because I I did leave I would have to leave the state. Just a few of the many reasons.
****Please note - what I would consider disrepectful may not be what others consider disrespectful.
What is your take? Are the actions speaking louder or the words?