I won't spend it all in one place! *UPDATED* *UPDATE IN BLUE*
We are a large italian family and we love to give big gifts to thank our family members on special occasions.
My sister married a man with a lot of money. ive known him most of my life. he's not my fave. unless you have a ton of money, you're useless to him.
hubby and i always give beautiful gifts to them and their children. until now that is....my wedding gift form them was...
"Dear X and X,
You don't owe me the $100 i lent you. That is my gift to you.
X,X,X, and X"
i know for some this would be a nice gesture... and i should be grateful for anything anyone gives.
*I forgot to mention, at the rehearsal dinner the night beofre, i gave her a coach purse to thank her for everything she did as my matron of honor AND let her know that i'd be paying her back at the post wedding brunch from our wedding cash...i feel that was an extremely important piece i didn't mention*
*My sister explained to my mom why she gave what she gave...She said her gift to me was being my Matron of Honor* i don't understand that one...she's my only sister! I was hers, and that certainly wasn't my gift to her.