I just read a post about a mom who's son is in kindergarten and was teased for a shirt he wore to school. My question. We bullied in school or where the bully? Kids any more r just plain meant to each other and its just getting worse and there starting at a younger age. When I was in school granted I graduated almost 8 years ago from a very small town and we never really had this problem for the most part the kids in my class got along and we thought of each other as brothers and sisters and fought like them too. There's been one tragedy to the next, from school shootings and suicides from bullying. So what were u the bully or the bullied?