So my one of my good friends got this 16 yo girl pregnant and since she got pregnant she has become so abusive to my friend. He told me that she'll throw all her weight on him when he isn't paying attention, she punches him, smacks him, smacks things out of his hands, throws things, breaks things, freaks out over everything... anyhow, she had their baby 4 weeks ago and hasn't improved any of her behavior. I was hoping that if she saw me be a mother it would changer her parenting but this girl really has no motherly instinct at all. She always gets irritated when her son cries, she gets grossed out when he poops or spits up, she doesn't have a desire to hold him, she refuses to breast feed because she thinks its nasty...there are Haute so many things that are wrong.
Anyways, She called me the other day to ask if I could pick her up from the mall because she and my friend got in a fight WITH THEIR INFANT IN THE BACKSEAT and they were broken up so I told her that she was too violent, if she didn't get that way their fights wouldn't get so bad. Now my friend won't talk to me because that girl is so controlling and im afraid for that baby:( I fear that shell accidentally kill or really hurt her son.
on Jan. 21, 2014 at 9:35 PM