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What would you do if your relative were kept on life support against their and your wishes?

Posted by on Jan. 24, 2014 at 10:34 AM
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Brain Dead Pregnant Woman's Fetus Is 'Abnormal' Yet Hospital Still Won't Let Them Go

by Kiri Blakeley

The outrageous case of the brain dead pregnant woman in Texas who continues to be kept on life support despite the protests of her husband and family has taken another tragic turn. Lawyers representing Erick Munoz, who is fighting to have his brain dead wife, Marlise, taken off life support even though she is now 22 weeks pregnant, say that the fetus is -- reportedly according to the hospital's own records -- "distinctly abnormal" and has so many lower extremity deformities that no one can even tell what sex the fetus is.

Pregnant Marlise Munoz, who already had a young child, suffered a pulmonary embolism when she was about 14 weeks pregnant. She lay on the floor for at least an hour with no oxygen until she was discovered by her husband and rushed to the hospital. But it was too late. Marlise was tragically declared brain dead.

Since Erick and Marlise were EMTs who had formerly discussed end-of-life care, Erick knew that Marlise's wishes were not to be kept alive by artificial means in case of such a severe happenstance. It's unclear if they discussed this again after Marlise became pregnant. Since she was only pregnant for 14 weeks and probably not thinking of dying, maybe not. Either way, Erick says he knows what her wishes would have been and wanted Marlise to go peacefully.

However, the Forth Worth, Texas hospital where Marlise has been has refused because of a Texas law that says if a fetus is involved, a woman's life can't be terminated. Reportedly, several experts have said that the hospital is misinterpreting the law -- but the hospital has stuck to its guns. In a way, you can't blame them. They probably don't want the government coming after them.

Many have sympathized with Erick -- but many have also condemned him, asking how a husband couldn't want his unborn child to be given a chance. But now it seems fairly clear -- at least given this report -- that the viability of the fetus is in major doubt.

Attorneys for Erick said that the fetus, on top of the deformities, also has fluid inside of the skull as well as a heart problem.

The attorneys said:

Quite sadly, this information is not surprising due to the fact that the fetus, after being deprived of oxygen for an indeterminate length of time, is gestating within a dead and deteriorating body, as a horrified family looks on in absolute anguish, distress, and sadness.

While there is still some chance that this fetus might develop into a baby that is viable outside the womb, it sounds increasingly unlikely that the baby would have any kind of a normal life. It's heartbreaking and unfair that the family has to go through this, all because the state has decided it knows what is better for Marlise and Erick than they do.

Hopefully this issue will be cleared up in the courts so that no other family in Texas has to go through this.

What would you do if this was your relative?

by on Jan. 24, 2014 at 10:34 AM
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Mishy2
by Michelle on Jan. 24, 2014 at 10:36 AM

 wow. That is all I can say. I have no idea what I would do.

Pnukey
by Member on Jan. 24, 2014 at 10:39 AM

I would sue. I'm not a sue-happy person, but getting stuck with the bill for what they are doing would motivate me to sue.

Perle1
by on Jan. 24, 2014 at 10:45 AM
I would sue both the hospital and the state
EireLass
by Ruby Member on Jan. 24, 2014 at 1:10 PM
I would find a way to put us all out of our misery.
Mom2Phoenix2011
by on Jan. 24, 2014 at 1:16 PM
I would be doing anything and everything possible to get that plug pulled. I find this disgusting and purely selfish of the hospital and state. To me this is the very definition of humans playing god.
JaeMommy07
by Member on Jan. 24, 2014 at 4:08 PM

I wouldn't be okay with it at all. My SO and I have our wishes made clear and I would be pissed as hell if the state went against those wishes.

momofsixangels
by Colleen on Jan. 25, 2014 at 9:09 AM

I wouldnt know unless I was in that situation-

momofthem311
by Silver Member on Jan. 25, 2014 at 9:10 AM
The judge has already decided to take her off.
LadyFreeRider
by Member on Jan. 25, 2014 at 9:17 AM
It's so hard to say one way or another when a baby's life is at stake as well as the mother's. In this case I agree with pulling the plug since the hospital has declared such complications with the fetus. If I was that family I'd do the same thing with getting a lawyer involved. It's harder to bury a child after being born and seeing what could have been then it is to let them both go now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 25, 2014 at 10:01 AM
She is being taken off life support Monday. The husband finally won. Sick of people shoving their beliefs on others.

Other side it is sad the brain dead girl got a feeding tube and is being kept alive when the coroner issued her death certificatr already. Parents don't believe the many doctors that she is dead so she moved to a nursing home.
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