My Dh cannot deal with his BM anymore. She is so verbally abusive and accuses him of things he didn't do on the regular.
As in the last incident. She told DH on his 4 hour visitation to MAKE valentines from a template she wanted him to do. She told him she dind't want to buy the "cheap ones" so she demanded that he make them with his son. When he tried to do them with his son he had no interest and threw a fit so he didn't force him to do them. When DH brought SS back to BM house she threatened DH and said that he is a undependable prick and that the only person he hurt was his son. (We know that she makes SS feel guilty when anyone doesn't do what she wants so most likely she made him feel bad that he didn't do them when asked and then threw DH under the bus.) She said SS was crying and said that DH wouldn't let him make the valentines when she asked him why he didn't do them.
I can't blame DH that he doesn't want to deal with her anymore and it's to the point after 4 years that she does this on a regular basis that him nor I want to be around SS anymore due to SS's lying and making situations worse when it comes to BM and he accusatory and harassing behavior. Is that bad or wrong of us to feel this way?