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What Came First?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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The chicken or the egg? Just kidding! LOL

What was your sequence ..... marriage then children or child(ren) then marriage?

Bonus Q - did you (honest!) get married because of pregnancy or were you planning marriage anyway?

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2014 at 7:56 PM
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TheFairest
by on Feb. 13, 2014 at 7:58 PM
Dated DH for 4yrs engaged 1 married got pregnant right after the honeymoon ;)
mcginnisc
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2014 at 8:01 PM

Marriage...kids came along almost 12 years later. 

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

Raeann11
by New Member on Feb. 13, 2014 at 8:02 PM

Marriage and then children. Just the way we wanted it.

StreetsAhead
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 6:44 AM

The children. 

the marriage bit is a sore spot and has been before kids

polkaspots
by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 6:45 AM
Child came first, then I met DH, married him and started ttc.
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lovemercygrace
by Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 6:47 AM

 Marriage then Kids, We were engaged before we got pregnant with our oldest

Sister_Someone
by Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 6:48 AM

N/A

My fiance isn't the father of my child, nor am I the mother of his.

Annellyse
by on Feb. 14, 2014 at 6:49 AM

Child and then marriage.  We did not get married because of the pregnancy.  We'd already been talking marriage.  DS was almost 3 when we married.

Maries_Mom23
by Member on Feb. 14, 2014 at 6:51 AM

Marriage came first.  Started TTC when we had been married for 2 weeks! 

Mishy2
by Michelle on Feb. 14, 2014 at 9:12 AM

 We got married first, then had kids.

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