I posted in another group how my DD had become VERY defiant the past couple years and I admit that I might have contributed to her behavior or at least I haven't done much to stop it until now because I realize just how out of control she is. Everything has become a struggle and I'm at my wits end because I just don't know what consequences will work. Time outs never did anything except exhaust me because I either had to hold her there or keep running after her and she never learned anything from it.
Now I really want to cut tv/iPad time and cut out lots of sweets. Do you all think that is having a major effect on her behavior?