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Is it really an affair if...?

Anonymous
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... you have a relationship with someone who's going through a divorce? My brother's girlfriend is going through a divorce and her soon-to-be-ex's sister flipped out on them when she saw them together at the store, calling her a cheating whore and lashing out at my brother for stealing her brother's wife. The divorce papers were filed months ago and they've been living apart for more than a year.

What do you think? Affair or no?

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2014 at 12:56 PM
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myempyreofdirt
by Member on Mar. 19, 2014 at 7:39 PM
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No. Emotionally they're already divorced. The paperwork is just a legal formality.
cheetah90210
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2014 at 7:41 PM
No
.anonymous
by on Mar. 19, 2014 at 7:55 PM
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Until a couple is officially divorced, ON PAPER, it's cheating. That's how I see it, anyway. Seperated or not, until that divorce is official, they're still married.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 19, 2014 at 7:56 PM
Not an affair!
kkillette91
by New Member on Mar. 19, 2014 at 11:35 PM
No. If it was I was with my husband before he had gotten his divorce finalized. She was also in a relationship. She's also a child abusing whore.
KendallsMommee
by Member on Mar. 19, 2014 at 11:36 PM
Nope.

Done deal.
kitty8199
by Nicole on Mar. 19, 2014 at 11:37 PM
Maybe she's not telling him the truth about the divorce.
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kitty8199
by Nicole on Mar. 19, 2014 at 11:38 PM
I kinda agree because they can change their mind.

Quoting .anonymous: Until a couple is officially divorced, ON PAPER, it's cheating. That's how I see it, anyway. Seperated or not, until that divorce is official, they're still married.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 19, 2014 at 11:38 PM
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Legally, yes. Morally, eh. I don't think so.
Riceball83
by on Mar. 20, 2014 at 12:23 AM


Quoting .anonymous: Until a couple is officially divorced, ON PAPER, it's cheating. That's how I see it, anyway. Seperated or not, until that divorce is official, they're still married.
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