My SO and I have been together for almost two years now. He is a great man and makes me ridiculously happy in many ways. Except the bedroom. Don't get me wrong, when we do have sex, it's the best I have ever had! But those times seem to be few and far between. I have a higher sex drive then him and it drives me insane! Shouldn't it be the man begging for sex?? He tells me that it has absolutely nothing to do with me, and it's all him. He says that it's all a mental thing for him and he just can't get excited as much as he used to. Now, I'm a bigger girl so when he turns me down, I'm sure you can gather where my mind goes. But he tells me that he finds me sexy... So what gives?? I would love any advice for anyone who has gone through the same thing or something similar!!