So need some advice on negative comment made by my fiancé about my XH. I understand that he may not like my XH because he listens to me & hears my drama that my XH brings. However I find it unexceptable for my fiancé to make a negative comment where my son would hear. In this case my son didn't hear & although we don't live together I worry that when we do. I don't want us to bash each other's ex's for the respect of our kids & trust we're trying to build & lost due to a careless comment. Just feel that venting about each ex's should be done in private.
I don't think I'am asking a lot for that respect but also have to deal w/my XH for the next 15YRS so I try to have a fair relationship w/my XH & since my fiancé relationship w/his ES isn't there I don't think he understands. How do you balance a new relationship w/a negative fiancé & XH. Not asking them to be best friends just be an adult.
on Apr. 23, 2014 at 12:40 AM