A little background, DH has two sisters (one older, one younger), their mother died when DH was a teenager. His older sister lives over 12 hours away, his younger sister lives 1.5hour away she also has two young daughters who DH loves to death.Last year we dealt with a lot of stuff from his grandparents estate (all of them were executors as well). DH older sister was not involved at all (Being so far away) except to ocassionally sign stuff, DH younger sister was barely involved as well, leaving DH to do most of the work. Since DH was working most of the time, he asked me to go, do paperwork, and meet with the lawyer.
His YS was constantly wanting DH (or me) to do stuff for her including get her tag done (which we had to drive back and forth 5 different times for, due to her tag being a tribal tag which is a little different and her car still being in their grandmothers name,). Last May, his YS and her husband (who was deployed at this point) were buying a house. His YS was wanting me to fax her a piece of paper (from their grandparents estate) she should have already had a copy of (from their lawyer, I had NO access to a fax machine nor a car to get to one. SO and i were fighting that day so i was really pissed (this is before we were married).
I text her these exact words "I love you and the girls, but i cannot deal with this right now, please in the future ask your brother or (their estate lawyer) about these types of things."
"Are you fucking kidding me?"
"You've always had your nose in this since the beginning, now all the sudden you don't want anything to do with it, i was only dealing with you because it was easier then dealing with (her brother) or (the lawyer). Your a bitch"
(at this point i was even more pissed and didn't care "It's really funny how you want to be nice when you want something (like your tag done) but whenever i say no, you call me a bitch, that's real classy"
"Whatever, fuck you"
So, we haven't talked since then (I said maybe two words to her when she came to town and got their birthday and Christmas presents, in Jan.), she knows I'm pissed at her. We didn't invite her when we got married, that was DH choice (it was a VERY small ceremony, only 6 people including me and DH). Now DH wants to go see his niece's, i told him to go ahead and go, but he wants me to go with him but i refused, due to his sister. We got into a argument, he thinks since i married him (which she doesn't even know) that i should tolerate her for him and because he doesn't want to go alone. I don't feel like i should have to.
What do you ladies think? For the record, all my family loves him and my mom treats him like a son.