When my sister had her first everything she needed was handed down to her and now her baby is just a few months younger than mine and I've been handing all the stuff down as he out grows it. The thing is I am in a rough spot financially and I've had to buy everything for him. She has even bragged about how lucky she is because for the most part she hasn't had to buy anything for her kids because of people giving her items. Well recently ds hit another growth spurt and I asked if she would be able to help with some clothing and she said no she didn't have the money. I didn't have the money either considering the clothes he just grew out of he was only in for a month. I didn't ask for expensive items second hand is just fine as long as I am able to put clothes on my baby. She actually wants to give away the items I've already handed down to someone else, after I already asked for them back because DH and I aren't done having kids. I really want to stop handing things down to her but I fear it will cause a family fight(that's a different post all together).
Am I in the wrong or being selfish? What would you do if you were in this situation?