So my boyfriend went to a funeral for a friends grandmother today and apparently the funeral and everything was near my bf's mother's house. So of course he just HAD to stop by her house when the funeral was over with (they're VERY close).
I am SUPER pissed off that he stopped by her house just to say hi. wtf for??? because he was like right by her house?? big deal. she works from home and the time that he stopped over was still a part of her work day..so why bother her? plus, he could've been home like an hour earlier than he was if he wouldn't have stopped there!!
is family that important to you guys?? do you just stop by your parent's house/family members house if you're nearby?? if so, why? how often do you communicate with/see your mom, for instance?
i'm not super close with my family, so i don't understand this sh*t. there was no necessary/logical need to stop by his mother's house instead of coming straight home to his FAMILY. he wants to say hi? then he can say it in one of their 10,000 texts they send each other everyday. he was super close to her house? big freakin' deal. she would've never known (well, his mom prob would have because he would've told her about the funeral and where it was and then she would've said 'oh you should stop by quick afterwards'..blah, blah, blah..)
I wish he was more like how my mom/family and i are: we live states away, don't see each other, we call or text here and there.. yet, magically, we all still love each other (even though we're not up each other's asses 24 hours/day). my boyfriend makes it seem like if you don't see/talk to your mom/family every single day that there's no way you could love them or that they could love you... goodness gracious.
Rant over! :)